April, 2016

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Becoming Courageous in the Face of Fear

In his first inaugural address while the nation was experiencing a cruel depression, Franklin D. Roosevelt (FDR) inspired Americans who were afraid of the great depression. He appealed to the nation: “Let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself—nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.” FDR was the voice that comforted America in that dark period in its history because he knew the very nature of fear. He identified, labeled, and confronted FEAR so that people would overcome it. His plea was if Americans refrained from entertaining fear, they could come out alive from that vicious depression.

Fear is brutal. It has an invisible power to cause us live what hasn’t yet happened. It’s a ghost you cannot see and touch but its presence terrorizes you if you allow it. The problem is that there is no known cure to overcome fear. It’s persistent. The only way to defeat fear is to learn how to live and co-exist with it. No one is exempted and immunized. Fear attacks everyone once in awhile. Very few, however, learned how to triumph over it. One of such persons was the late Nelson Mandela. He said, “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”

Mandela, our hero, was honest about feeling afraid. In his autobiography, he expanded on the above statement. Once he was onboard of a small plane. It was a local flight within South Africa. The crew was told one of the engines went dead once they were on the air. Everybody began to panic. Mandela too thought that was it. He thought he was going to die that day. But, everybody was looking at him and counting on him to encourage them. What they didn’t know was that he too was scared 🙂

The difference between those on that flight who entertained and fed fear, and finally exhibited it outwardly; and Mandela was that he knew the true meaning of courage. He knew how to deal with fear. In the book, he shared how he took leadership and calmed everyone and asked the team to hope for the best while he was afraid within. Since he didn’t display fear in the outside, they thought he was a superman who doesn’t feel fear. They were wrong. He was a bold man who overcame his fears at cellular level 🙂 He didn’t allow fear to grow within him, and manifest in the outside. As for the plane, it landed safely…

We all may not have the same kinds of fears. For some, the fear that torments them could be health related while for others, financial; and still for others, the fear of losing, failing, rejection, and so on. Whatever fear (s) we may experience right now, we all should learn from Mandela. We shouldn’t allow fear to overwhelm and paralyze us. Even if it looks like we’re going down and sinking at any second from NOW and this is our last breath/day/week/month/year, let’s acknowledge it, overcome the feeling, and stay on course. Let’s move forward regardless of the fear that is attacking us from within. The storm will, for sure, pass. We’ll survive to tell the story. And most importantly, let’s take a lesson or two on how to manage FEAR this time so that we won’t allow fear to terrorize us as it did this time when we face it the next time.

The Importance of Giving Values the Reverence They Deserve

Some individuals and organizations have neglected, undermined, and misunderstood the full extent contributions of values. Many of these individuals and organizations treat them as cosmetics- to look good in the eyes of their people and the outside world. Almost all organizations post their values in public places for others to notice.

The question is do they revere their values, and have they taken them seriously?

Merely knowing the significance of values can’t be translated into something useful that could transform the lives of individuals and the destiny of organizations, and societies. Values that are there for mere display purpose are toothless, and cannot deliver what we intend to achieve from embracing them.

From 1 to 10, how much do you revere your values? What is keeping you from increasing the score, let’s say to 8 or 9 or even 10?